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If you have never had satisfying sex with a partner
within an ongoing relationship,
please circle 0 and skip to the next section, Section J.
If you have ever had satisfying sex with a partner
within an ongoing relationship,
please consider the most recent period in your life when you
had satisfying sex in a relationship:
1 a. In this period of my life
in this relationship,
the following were usually or always
present in my most satisfying sexual
experiences with my partner (Check
all that apply.)
Before
Sex
| Feeling close to my partner
before sex 0 |
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| Arguing before having sex |
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| Having an alcoholic drink
before sex |
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| Using marijuana
or another recreational drug before (or during) sex |
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Partner and Situation
| Feeling loved 00 |
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| Feeling safe in the relationships |
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| Knowing we could take as much time
as we wanted 0 |
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| Knowing there was no risk of getting
or transmitting a disease |
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| Knowing there was no risk of getting
pregnant 0 |
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| Being aware that I might become pregnant |
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| Knowing my partner would give me
the physical stimulation I needed |
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Behaviors and Feelings
During Sex
| Talking with my partner during sex
about what we were doing |
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| Talking about or acting out a shared
drama or fantasy 0000 |
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| Focusing on a stimulating fantasy
of my own 0000 |
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| Feeling really attuned with my partner
during sex 0000 |
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| No pressure from my partner for me
to have an orgasm 000 |
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| No pressure from myself to have an
orgasm |
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| Being aware that I might become pregnant |
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| My partner was accepting of my desires,
preferences and responses 0 |
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| My partner got and maintained an
erection 0 |
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| My partner did not ejaculate quickly |
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Stimulation
| Extended stimulation of other kinds before intercourse |
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| Breast stimulation |
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| Manual stimulation of my genitals |
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| Oral stimulation of my genitals 00 |
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| Using a vibrator |
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| Using a dildo 00 |
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| Anal stimulation |
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| Having intercourse |
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| Steady, reliable stimulation that continued through
orgasm |
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Outcomes
| One or more orgasms |
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| Simultaneous orgasm with
my partner 000 |
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| Knowing that I gave my partner
a wonderful experience |
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| Emotional closeness after
sexual activity |
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Other (please specify)
1b. In the period of my life
I have been considering for this question I was in my:
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50s
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60s
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